Hi, I'm Chris. I'm 18 and from London.
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Q&A
Confessions of a.. umm.. bisexual?
”You’re not bisexual, you’re just gay”.
But then I’m like:
That’s not completely the case. Even though it may seem that way; as I am physically more attracted to guys and I just can’t see myself being with a woman. Because the truth is: women are complicated, I don’t understand them and I find it hard to fall for them. Every time I get close to a female she becomes like a best friend or sister to me. However that doesn’t give me the right to lie to her and say I’m not attracted to her in any way. The matter of the fact is that I find women attractive and would possibly date one. I just fear that I wouldn’t be as happy. Women get periods, are likely not to have as much sex with you, sometimes fake it, I feel as though I’m the one who has to pay for everything and feel awkward wanting to be the small spoon when spooning. But with men? Men don’t get periods, are likely to love sex as much as myself (or even more), hardly fake it, I don’t feel incompetent when they pay for the date or make more money, can spoon either way without any awkwardness and completely understands and relates to myself. Any girls reading this don’t be like:
:)
I’m just saying that I’d prefer to be with a guy. It’s at a point where even I don’t feel I should call myself bisexual. If I only want to date guys.. then am I just gay? But then wouldn’t I be fibbing in saying that I’m only attracted to the same sex. Because to an extent, I am physically attracted to women. Attracted enough for me to have sex with… just not enough for me to want to date or be with.
I don’t want to be labelled any longer. I feel that it just confuses people (including myself). When I say that I’m bisexual people assume that I’m attracted to males and females in the same way - but I’m not. If I’m going to be completely honest, I vision myself dating and spending the rest of my life with a guy. However when I say that people get judgemental and point there finger like:
”You’re not bisexual, you’re just gay”.But then I’m like:
That’s not completely the case. Even though it may seem that way; as I am physically more attracted to guys and I just can’t see myself being with a woman. Because the truth is: women are complicated, I don’t understand them and I find it hard to fall for them. Every time I get close to a female she becomes like a best friend or sister to me. However that doesn’t give me the right to lie to her and say I’m not attracted to her in any way. The matter of the fact is that I find women attractive and would possibly date one. I just fear that I wouldn’t be as happy. Women get periods, are likely not to have as much sex with you, sometimes fake it, I feel as though I’m the one who has to pay for everything and feel awkward wanting to be the small spoon when spooning. But with men? Men don’t get periods, are likely to love sex as much as myself (or even more), hardly fake it, I don’t feel incompetent when they pay for the date or make more money, can spoon either way without any awkwardness and completely understands and relates to myself. Any girls reading this don’t be like: :)I’m just saying that I’d prefer to be with a guy. It’s at a point where even I don’t feel I should call myself bisexual. If I only want to date guys.. then am I just gay? But then wouldn’t I be fibbing in saying that I’m only attracted to the same sex. Because to an extent, I am physically attracted to women. Attracted enough for me to have sex with… just not enough for me to want to date or be with.
